Today
 would have been my dad's eightieth birthday. Here he is with my mom on one 
of the happiest days of his life: the birth of his first grandchild (my 
oldest son). 
 
 He died nine months later, a week after he turned fifty-three. After all he'd done for me in his relatively short life, I was happy I had been able to provide him with that final gift.
 
 
This afternoon, Ringo the Wonder Retriever and I walked to the cemetery. I
 blew my dad a kiss and told him we missed him. 
As I walked back home in
 the snow, I could almost hear him beside me, whistling a tune.
Who do you miss? 

 
